As more Chinese parents adopt a Western style of parenting that allows children more freedom and encouragement, Amy Chua and
runescape money her book lauding strict Chinese parenting as superior ignited unprecedented attention among Americans.
Chua made the cover of the latest issue of
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over her alleged Chinese parenting methods including no grades lower
than A, no sleepovers, TV or computer games.
As many in the US
became furious at her "ruthless" way, asking "where is the love and
respect for children," some are wondering whether the Chinese approach
creates smarter people who can take the lead in the future global
marketplace - especially after teenagers from Shanghai in December
posted the top scores in an international test of practical knowledge
in reading, mathematics and science.
The US students, in contrast, ranked 17th in reading, 23rd in science and 31st in math.
"In
fact, the US would benefit more from the Chinese way of parenting as
nowadays more top students in well-off urban China choose the US for
higher education and future employment," Liu Pengzhi, headmaster of the
High School Affiliated to Renmin University of China, one of the top
high schools in Beijing said.
Last year, China surpassed India to
send the most students to the US. By the end of 2010, students from
China accounted for 19 percent of the international students in the US.
In
2009-2010, about 128,000 Chinese students were studying in the US,
mainly in undergraduate and graduate programs, up 30 percent over the
previous academic year, a study by the US-based Institute of
International Education showed.
That the number of students from China is booming is because of a booming Chinese economy and
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a determination held by Chinese parents to invest money to ensure their
children get the best education possible, Peggy Blumenthal, executive
vice-president of the institute once told the New York Times.
That
sounds true to a rising number of young and well-educated Chinese
parents, who have begun to adopt a new parenting method largely inspired
by the Western approach.
Allowing children the freedom to explore other possibilities besides academic study, respecting their rights to
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a happy and playful childhood, and more encouragement are among the key
elements, said Sun Hongyan, a division director of the China Youth and
Children Research Center.
"It`s true children need prodding and
discipline but a relaxed environment coupled with quality education will
help foster smart, creative, and physically and mentally healthy
children rather than the goof only good at academic results," said Yang
Jianfen, a Beijing-based mom who holds a master`s degree in Chinese
literature and works as a civil servant.
In Chinese academic
circles, some are also reflecting on the Chinese way of parenting and
education, which seems challenged to raise creative minds like Bill
Gates - a Harvard dropout.
"In my opinion, compared with highly
strict Chinese parenting, the Western way exerts more positive influence
on children`s mental health," said Cui Yonghua, a leading psychiatrist
at Beijing Anding Hospital.
Cui pointed out that many Chinese
parents now focus too much on children`s IQ development and physical
health but little on their mental health. And it`s not good for parents
to protect their children from every pressure and discomfort.
"Parents should believe that children are able and flexible," he said.